In his lament, David said whose love for him surpassed the love of women?

Answer: Jonathan

"I grieve for you, Jonathan, my brother… your love to me was extraordinary, surpassing the love of women."

“I grieve for you, Jonathan, my brother. You were delightful to me; your love to me was extraordinary, surpassing the love of women.”— 2 Samuel 1:26 (BSB)